My Daily Beef

Introduction to My Daily Beef

This is a place where men can come to discuss problems they have with the opposite sex, with each other, share issues and hopefully arrive at a place where relationships can move forward successfully.This is not a place to intimidate, abuse, insult or offend. If you're that way inclined, please do not join this forum.Thank you.

Health

Is there something that really bothers you about your health in your relationship? Are things so bad that they are leading to stress? Drink? Not getting home until you really have to?Perhaps somebody else in here will have the right suggestion for you to sort out your turmoil?

Personal Well-being.

To question one's self is an important thing to do.While the aim of this site is to help men get on better with women, there will come a point when man has to sit down and review one's action'.The time has come.

Did I do the right thing?

If I approach her friend for help, is it a good move?

I HATE Christmas

Another Christmas alone. Fed up with this, how do I get out of it?Somebody help.

Relationships

This really is the place we're all at. When we haven't got one we want to be in one, then after a short moment of sweetness and light the gloves come off. Some of us stick around, others get out while the going's good... and some of us commit ourselves to something we might already know to be a bad idea. It's time to talk.

She tries to think for me

My girlfriend has started doing something which is really annoying. She keeps thinking that she knows what I'm thinking. I am constantly hearing, "I know what your thinking," or if when we're talking she'll interrupt my response because she thinks she knows what I'm going to say... or the other one is, "I thought that's what you wanted." That's despite me not having said a single word. I'm not sure when this all started but I know it's very, very irritating.She's a lovely girl so I want to know, how do I go about getting her out of this habit? Thanks.

Driving with her drives me crazy.

When we're out in the car, everytime we are going to pass a lorry my girlfriend doubles up and screams, "Break." It's putting me off driving. We live in a small town and have to use the motorway if we're to do anything. It's driving me nuts.

Mind control.

My girlfriend wants to play boss all of the time. Initially, it was quite fun but it's getting so bad, she tuts if I start talking to someone without asking her first. Maybe I'm a fool for even playing along with it, it was fun at first but now it's pathetic. How do I get out of this?

Sexually harrassed!

Life at home is becoming very depressing. She (my girlfriend) wants sex all of the time. I can't keep up with her. I know some guys live for a woman like this but honestly, everything is a bloody nightmare. She's very demanding and doesn't let up. I'm getting in later and later in the hope that she's asleep when I get home but this is no way to live. Help please.

Fed up; I feel like ending it.

I feel like giving in. The wife has left and taken the kids, they were my whole life. Without them I don't feel like going on anymore, and want to end it.

Still a virgin.

I found it really difficult to approach girls when I was young, and when I did I got turned down. I was turned down so much it's affected my confidence. I'm hurtling (faiirly quickly) towards my 30th. I'm really confident at work but when it comes to meeting women, going out on a date and knowing when to ask what... I'm rubbish. All of my friends have had sex, I'm still very much on the starting grid. What's the easiest way of meeting without getting the stop sign all the time?

Communication error.

I have a girlfriend, and we've been together for around 18 months. When we go out to a club, restrauant or even shopping and if I talk to another woman, she thinks I'm trying to make a pass. I tell her that I love her all the time but it's not getting through. How can I get past this?

Marriage is hard to do.

A friend (likely begining) got engaged to someone. It was all going really well until one day when he woke up, looked at his fiancee and realised that he didn't love her. I know what he did but not all men are the same so what advice could you give to someone in this positon?

Living together can be hell.

When we started living together it was fun.Then we learnt what each other was like and it became hard work.There seems to be a constant torrade of stressful subjects to talk about and being at home just isn't fn anymore. Short of living alone, I don't know how to stop if from happening. Any suggestion welcome. Thanks.

Finances

Who buys, who pays, who doesn't.Relationships are all about sharing, not just taking and not just giving.Financial woes are a major stumbling block in almost every relationship. So as that's the case, how do we turn deficit into profit and live a happier lifestyle? Anyone needing help in this area, enter, post a topic and discuss.

Women

Hello!Good to have you along, thanks for taking the time to stop by.This site (as I hope you're aware) has been formed as a way of getting us males of the species to talk primarily about relationships because generally, we don't. Women have the world cornered when it comes to discussing, sharing, sorting and fixing problems. Let's face it, we don't really know how you think... we don't pick up on hints and we'll eventually buy the wrong present for Christmas; and we'll know about it when it's too late.The site isn't "anti-women," it's "inclusive." It's a place to come, share and get along. So if you see anything on the site which is defamatory, which names names, is insulting, intimidating, vulgar, repulsive or merits a complaint then please do.Also, if you feel you want to raise anything then, that would be great. Please though observe and adhere to the paragraph above that you've just read.Thank you again,Admin.

Recommended reading

There are plenty of good books around which are great when it comes to looking at relationships; dealing with problems from our past, problems as they happen, of the future.If you've read anything worth getting stuck into, why not suggest it here? and pass comment if you've already read it?